I am in need of some advice and support right now. My best friend and I are in a huge fight, and it's all over a guy in our class. We both have a crush on him and neither of us can seem to agree on who should make a move first. The problem is that we have been best friends for years and this is the first time we have ever had a disagreement like this. We have always been able to work through our differences, but this time, it feels like the stakes are higher.

I don't know what to do. On one hand, I don't want to lose my best friend over a guy, but on the other hand, I don't want to give up my feelings for him. I feel like I am stuck in the middle and I don't know how to resolve this. I have tried talking to my friend, but it always turns into a heated argument. I don't want to lose my friend, but I also don't want to pretend like I don't have feelings for this guy. What can I do?