I've struggled all year to make friends in college. I thought it would be easy to meet people, but I haven't clicked with anyone in my classes or clubs. I feel like I'm just going through the motions and not really connecting with anyone. How do I put myself out there without feeling awkward or desperate? I don't want to force friendships, but I also don't want to spend the next three years feeling lonely and isolated.
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I feel you! Making friends in college can be so daunting, but it's definitely doable. One thing that's helped me is getting involved in community service or volunteer work. It's a great way to meet like-minded people and give back to your local community at the same time.
College can be a really overwhelming experience, and it's totally normal to feel lonely or isolated at times. Have you considered talking to a counselor or therapist on campus? They can provide a safe space to explore your feelings and offer strategies for building social connections.
I totally understand where you're coming from. It can be hard to break into social circles, especially if everyone seems to already know each other. Have you tried reaching out to classmates or peers one-on-one? Sometimes it's easier to build a connection with someone when you're not in a big group setting.
Don't be too hard on yourself! Making friends takes time, and it's not something that happens overnight. Keep putting yourself out there, whether that's through study groups, social events, or even just striking up conversations in class. You never know who you might connect with.
Making friends in college can be tough, especially if you're not living on campus or involved in many extracurricular activities. Have you considered joining any clubs or organizations that align with your interests? It's a great way to meet people who share your passions and hobbies.